Judging is in human nature
Monday, 20 December 2010 @ 23:58
I watch Desperate Housewives. And it IS a good show. I used to have bad impressions about it, but to me, you can learn valuable lessons from it. And I think one of the things they touch on majorly would be judgments.
People judge. I think that's normal. I don't think saying judging is wrong is right. It's in human nature. The moment you see someone, you'll have an impression on them based on their looks. I admit I have them too. It's inevitable. In the show Desperate Housewives, everyone gets judged, but once you get to know each person, you realise each of them have their positive and negative sides. And most of the time, they end up entirely different from the first impression.
I think it's the same in real life. You meet someone, you have this first impression of them. But then you get to know them later, they may be as you initially thought. They may be the total opposite for all you know. It's important not to jump to conclusions about people. Someone who may seem all uptight about things may actually have this cool side to her. She may not show it, but it's still there.
The thing is, we make judgments from what we see. That's understandable. Just remember to keep an open mind, because the person may end up surprising you.
Maybe my post is a bit too repetitive, forgive me. I hope that you still see my point. :)
Goodnight!
